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antidote, cranky, God, gratitude, Holy Spirit, invitation, Jesus, journey, perspective, practice, tired, weary

Today was a driving day for our cross-country trip – perhaps the longest driving day of the trip. All told, we were on the road, with multiple stops, for about 10-11 hours. By the last hour, I was engaged in an inner complaint fest: the trip felt like forever, I was stiff from the ride, and I just wanted to be in the next location and stretch my legs. But when we arrived, I was glad I had kept my complaining to myself. First my younger child exclaimed, “That wasn’t so bad! It went by kind of quickly!” My husband agreed, “Yeah, that was an easy drive!” My elder child confessed, “I kind of like driving days. They’re like ‘chill’ days.”
Their comments helped me reflect on the day a little differently. I tried to remember all the good things about the day: the way the heavy fog slowly lifted to reveal beautifully green mountain scenery with rivers and tall pines; how fun it was to drive along winding road, hugging the curves; the pops of color that wildflowers brought to the drive; the fun road trip games we played, where everyone was winning at different points; the laughter, the naps, and adding a new state to our list of visited states.
Today, I am grateful for the invitation into gratitude. It’s a practice I encourage all the time, but one that is easily forgotten when we are tired, weary, and cranky. But the funny thing is that gratitude is the best antidote to us who are tired, weary, and cranky. When we give thanks, we see all the good things that made us tired. When we offer gratitude to God, our weariness is held like soft mattress. When we give ourselves to thankfulness, crankiness is melted into praise.
I would love to hear what you are grateful for today. How has God shown up in surprising ways? How has the Holy Spirit spoken grace through people in your life? How is Jesus inviting you into a new interpretation of the day? I’m grateful for you and our journey together in gratitude!