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blessing, community, death, dementia, gift, God, illness, Jesus, joy, light of Christ, peace, presence, visit

One of the privileges of the work I do are visitations. On countless occasions I have visited someone approaching death, someone in the throes of dementia, or someone just bone-weary with illness, and the immediate response when I walk in the door is a huge smile and the lightening of their countenance.
I am very clear what that reaction is not. It is not about me: I have come to understand that the reaction is much more about the collar I wear and associations that collar has with a beloved church community. It is also not about me bringing God to the room: God is already there – my presence just sometimes helps people remember that fact. And the reaction is definitely not about what I bring: my visit will not physically change the pending death, the continued dementia, or the ongoing suffering – my work is much more about helping the individual find peace and a sense of connection to God in what can feel like a desert.
Despite all the things those smiles and lighter countenances are not, there is still a shared joy in them. As the parishioner is reminded of God’s grace and love, so am I. I too take joy in how being a part of a community can make me feel whole. I too marvel at God’s presence that has gone before me. I too can receive the peace of Christ in those desert places. The gift of the visitation is not just for the visited. The gift is also to the visitor.
I wonder what ways God is inviting you to be that smile and lightened countenance for others. As schools restart, I see overwhelmed, weary parents, children, and teachers trying to adjust. As individuals struggle financially, I see the defeated feelings that manifest themselves in hunched body postures and the diminished capacity for hope. As a caretaker sits through another appointment or misses another engagement, I see a fatigue unlike any other. To whom is God inviting you, in your daily journey, to be the light of Christ – to be the reminder that God is already there, that a community awaits, and that glimpses of peace can be found? It is not about you, to be sure. But you will be blessed as you do the work of blessing too.
