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In a few moments, we will baptize Abby and Laela, sisters who are ages 6 and 7 respectively. What’s interesting about a baptism for candidates who are not infants is there is much more cognition, curiosity, and craving. In a sense, Abby and Laela understand more profoundly that their baptism is a sacrament of belonging – a welcoming into full membership in the body of Christ. One of Hickory Neck’s strongest gifts is the powerful gift of welcome. You talk to any newer or longer-term member, and they will likely tell you that Hickory Neck’s warm welcome was what drew them in and made them linger. There was a sense of inclusion and care that made them want to stay.
For a community so skilled in welcoming and especially as a community who will be welcoming Abby and Laela today, we hear a powerful word from John’s gospel about life with the Good Shepherd. For people familiar with the lectionary, the fourth Sunday of Easter, affectionally known as Good Shepherd Sunday, is a favorite Sunday. Every year on this Sunday we hear about Jesus’ proclamation of being the Good Shepherd. This year’s text from John tells us how Jesus the Good Shepherd lays down his life for the sheep; how Jesus will protect the sheep; how he knows the sheep and the sheep know him; and that there are other sheep that do not even belong to the fold that Jesus will bring into the beloved fold. When we hear a text like this, we get a warm-fuzzy feeling[i] – the kind of feeling of protected belonging that we want Abby and Laela to always feel with Jesus and the church community. That feeling of care and belonging has inspired artwork, song, liturgies, and sermon alike. This Good Shepherd Sunday reminds all of us of what inspired us to keep coming back to this modern incarnation of the Good Shepherd’s fold here at Hickory Neck.
The challenge about the warm-fuzzies that come with belonging is that chasing a sense of belonging can become consumeristic: a pursuing of a feeling that is received without any expectation of reciprocity. The pursuit of belonging makes sense. As one scholar suggests, “Forming authentic and holistic community is hard work – we dole out parts of ourselves in stingy bits and pieces, avoid being vulnerable with each other, hold back our feelings and thoughts, are afraid to confront each other, judge each other without mercy, hold grudges, set impossibly high standards for ourselves and each other…We have a difficult time trusting each other,” making real and life-giving community hard.[ii] But belonging with Jesus and within the faith community is not something that is just received. Belonging comes with obligation. No longer are we individuals feeling alone – now we are a part of a larger whole. Though beautiful, that whole does not work without each of its members. Receiving the warm-fuzzy feeling of belonging results in the action of giving: of contributing in your own right to the community.[iii]
The good news is that although we use language about welcome at Hickory Neck, we actually mean belonging. Yes, we were likely greeted warmly, maybe given a welcome gift or sent a greeting by mail soon after our first visit, and often we were recognized and engaged after the service or at Coffee Hour. But I cannot tell you the number of people at Hickory Neck who have also told me about how accessible involvement and even leadership are here. From stories of being recruited to lead Fall Festivals within the first year of membership, to hopping in as an usher or reader, to being invited to a Bible Study, service opportunity, or a Foyer Group, to becoming a financial supporter of programming: you are not just welcomed here – you are invited into belonging here. Though we may not use the strong word of “obligation” or “responsibility,” we teach through our behavior that warm welcome means full membership in the body of Christ. We join in not because we have to, but because the warmth of the Good Shepherd’s inclusion of all overwhelms us into wanting to give back – both here inside these walls and outside these walls in the wider community.
And that is what we have been teaching Abby and Laela about baptism. Today, as the water is poured over their heads and the oil rubbed into their foreheads, they will be welcomed into full membership in the body of Christ. And even though age six and seven might seem too young for the “obligations of membership in the body,” we need their gifts just as much as they need the gift of belonging. So, when they bring forward the communion elements, or participate in Godly Play, or join in singing and song, they make our community complete. They remind us of the broadness of God’s inclusion, the power of being known, and the resultant discipleship that springs out of all of us – no matter size, age, or ability. Today, the Good Shepherd welcomes Abby and Laela into the fold – into the body of Christ. Today, Abby and Laela invite us to renew our sense of belonging in that same fold and all that belonging entails. And for that, we give thanks to God. Amen.
[i] As described by Matt Skinner, on the Sermon Brainwave podcast, “#961: Fourth Sunday of Easter – April 21, 2024,” April 14, 2024, as found at https://www.workingpreacher.org/podcasts/961-fourth-sunday-of-easter-april-21-2024 on April 18, 2024.
[ii] Barbara J. Essex, “Homiletical Perspective,” Feasting on the Word, Year B, Vol. 2 (Louisville: Westminster John Knox Press, 2008), 451.
[iii] As described by Karoline Lewis, on the Sermon Brainwave podcast, “#961: Fourth Sunday of Easter – April 21, 2024,” April 14, 2024, as found at https://www.workingpreacher.org/podcasts/961-fourth-sunday-of-easter-april-21-2024 on April 18, 2024.
