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On Getting It Right…

10 Wednesday Jun 2026

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This coming Sunday our church is honoring a young parishioner who has just turned 13 – not because we want to celebrate a birthday, but because we want to honor the very real life-changes that are happening in the parishioner’s life at this significant developmental stage.  Last week, our Diocese hosted its inaugural Pride Service, where histories were retold, truths were honored, and where one queer attendee marveled, “I’ve never been to a worship service like this – especially not with my priest.”  And over the last six weeks, ten parishioners in our Discovery Class have been learning about the Episcopal Church, sharing their faith journeys, and asking hard questions about their faith and spiritual practices. 

What has struck me about all these experiences from church lately is how grateful I am that the Church is not at all afraid of the very real, honest, and vulnerable experience of being a human – and how the Church willingly steps along side us to help us make meaning.  What I have loved about these experiences is the absence of the word “should,” or any sense of judgment.  Instead, there is an abundance of wonder, curiosity, understanding, and care.  There has never been a feeling like something was taboo or inappropriate for question.  Sometimes just the naming of the thing – the transition, the hurt, the journey, or the longing – has been incredibly liberating and affirming.

So many times, the Church has gotten it wrong – has been an agent of judgment, exclusion, and hurt.  I have talked with many people who left the Church for a time (or permanently) because of such experiences.  Knowing that truth, I have been feeling especially grateful for a church who tries to be better – who acknowledges her faults and failings, and actively seeks to live in truth and love. 

I know many of you have stepped away from Church or have been hurt enough times by the Church that you are no longer interested in finding community there.  Know that you are loved and missed.  Also know that wherever you are on your spiritual journey, there are communities of faith who are working to be better – to be more loving, to be more affirming, to be more Christ-like.   For all of us, I lift up Thomas Merton’s prayer:

My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going.  I do not see the road ahead of me.  I cannot know for certain where it will end.  Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think I am following Your will does not mean that I am actually doing so.  But I believe that the desire to please You does in fact please You.  And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing.  I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire.  And I know that, if I do this, You will lead me by the right road, though I may know nothing about it.  Therefore I will trust You always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death.  I will not fear, for You are ever with me, and You will never leave me to face my perils alone.  Amen.[i]


[i] Thomas Merton, “A Prayer of Unknowing,” Thoughts in Solitude (New York:  Farrar, Straus & Cudahy, 1958), 79.

Sermon – Matthew 9.9-13, 18-26, P5, YA, June 7, 2026

10 Wednesday Jun 2026

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Abram, call, follow, God, invitation, Jesus, Matthew, mercy, Sermon, vocation, why, yes

One verse in the Bible.  That is all we get for the entirety of Matthew’s call story.  One verse – just 30 words in the English translation we heard today – and only 20 words in the original Greek.  “As Jesus was walking along, he saw a man called Matthew sitting at the tax booth; and he said to him, ‘Follow me.’  And he got up and followed him.”  That’s all we get.  Jesus sees Matthew working, tells Matthew to follow him, and Matthew gets up and follows Jesus.  When God calls Abram in our Old Testament lesson today, God makes multiple promises to Abram, makes multiple promises about the people Abram will encounter, and makes promises for the whole earth.  Abram gets a whole list of reasons to pack up and go where God invites.  Matthew gets two words:  Follow me.

Many of us know what being called to go feels like.  Our high school graduates finish an almost lifetime’s worth of work, and then go:  to college, to the workforce, to a new life.  Many of us have taken calls for new jobs:  a military assignment, a promotion at work in the new office location, a job in a town with more opportunities.  And many of us have responded to calls that felt like vocations:  an invitation to serve internationally, a marriage proposal or a divorce that meant uprooting a life, starting school over again because you felt a call to a new vocation, or even venturing into a new part of town or with a new set of people because you felt a call to care for those who needed you.  In all of those scenarios you said yes.  You followed.  You went.

So where does our yes come from?  For Matthew, even though we only get 30 words of explanation, and seemingly no words about his why, there is more to the story.  First, we are told that Jesus sees Matthew at a tax booth.  What we know about tax collectors in Jesus’ time is that tax collectors are hated.  “Matthew was socially despised and hated by the Roman subjects because tax collectors were known to be corrupt and committed to the imperial system.  His tax collection helped sustain the empire’s elite and the unjust status quo.”[i]  So, right away we know that for Jesus to invite a despised man, Jesus sees differently than everyone around him.  Scholar Amy Frykholm says, “Jesus sees Matthew.  He doesn’t see Matthew, the tax collector.  He sees a full human being… Thus, Jesus and Matthew have an actual encounter.  Clearly, as they truly see one another, something changes.  [As Martin] Buber writes, ‘When two people relate to each other authentically and humanly, God is the electricity that surges between them.’”[ii] 

So, though we seemingly know nothing about Jesus and Matthew – we also know there is something profound happening between them – an electricity surging between them because they authentically and humanly relate to each other.  But there is so much more to know about where Matthew’s yes could come from.  In the very next verse, we learn that Jesus doesn’t just see Matthew and accept him fully.  Jesus sits with a whole table of outcasts:  more tax collectors, sinners, and his disciples.  When called out about this socially unacceptable behavior Jesus proclaims he is about mercy.  But Jesus’ mercy is not limited to outcasts.  A leader in the religious community asks for revival of his dead daughter and Jesus goes to heal.  A hemorrhaging woman, a defiled woman for over 12 years, reaches out to touch Jesus’ cloak because she believes Jesus will heal her too – and he does.  As Stanley Hauerwas says, “Jesus is what he does.  He has come to give his life so that we can live the life for which we were created.”[iii] 

That is where our yes comes from.  “Jesus’ ministry is marked by both urgency and accessibility.  Both those who are outcast and those who are part of the social establishment find in Jesus a compassionate heart.  Both those with acute needs and those with chronic pain find healing power.  Both those who reach out and those who need to be beckoned find attentive aid.”[iv]  I don’t know where Jesus is asking you to follow him these days.  I do not know whether you feel worthy of such a call or whether you are even interested in listening.  I do not know if your life feels like there is room for a yes right now.  But I do know that Jesus is extending his mercy to you today.  Jesus sees you – not for what you do professionally, or the things you do recreationally, or even for the ailments that seem to define you.  Jesus sees you.  Jesus calls you.  The electricity of Jesus is surging all around you.  Your invitation is to follow.  Amen.


[i] Luke A. Powery, “Homiletical Perspective,” Feasting on the Word, Yr. A, Vol. 3 (Louisville:  Westminster John Knox Press, 2011), 117.

[ii] Amy Frykholm, “Healing Encounters,” May 31, 2026, as found at https://journeywithjesus.net/essays/4171-healing-encounters on June 5, 2026.

[iii] Stanley Hauerwas, Matthew:  Brazos Theological Commentary on the Bible (Grand Rapids:  Brazos Press, 2006), 102.

[iv] Alexander Wimberly, “Pastoral Perspective,” Feasting on the Word, Yr. A, Vol. 3 (Louisville:  Westminster John Knox Press, 2011), 116. 

On God, Grace, and Letting Go…

03 Wednesday Jun 2026

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God, anxiety, grace, gift, journey, children, tension, parenting, trust, heart, relief, free will, curse

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As we approach the end of the school year in our district, I had a surprising realization.  Our kids are old enough now that we expect them to keep up with assignments, tests, and projects.  We keep an eye on grades each quarter, but the expectation to work hard and do your best is already established.  And each of our children had tough years this year:  one in a grade notorious for being academically rigorous, the other making a transition from elementary to middle school.  But even in the expectation of challenging years, we also put a lot of trust in our children to make it work.

So, imagine my surprise, as we talked about this being the last week of school, when I realized how much tension I had been holding in my chest for our children to get to this point – to successfully complete the school year.  I had convinced myself that I had put the onus on them to be responsible for their own experiences and successes.  And yet, as I’ve been releasing a 9-month held breath of tension, I realized perhaps I’ve been holding on more than I was willing to admit. 

I talk a lot about free will when I offer pastoral care.  Theologically, I do not believe that God directs good or bad things our way necessarily.  So, when questions arise like, “Why would God let this happen?” or “Why do bad things happen to good people?” my answer is not some explanation about a punishing God, or about predestination, or even about works righteousness.  Instead, we talk about the tremendous gift (and curse) of free will. 

But what I had perhaps not realized until this week is my understanding of God’s relationship to free will.  Honestly, I had sort of thought of God as cut off from the decision to give us free will – sort of “you made your bed now lie in it” mentality.  But as I observed my own physical reaction to the relief of the end of a school year (where I had supposedly totally trusted my kids’ free will), I wonder if God mourns along with us when the exercise of our free will leads to negative consequences instead of positive ones.  I wonder if God is sometimes holding God’s breath until we make our way through the ups and downs of life.  I’m not arguing I would ever want God to take away our free will.  But somehow imagining God’s heart as God’s children figure it out has given me a lot more appreciation for the cost of our free will – and perhaps a lot more grace for my children as I watch their journey through the ups and downs of life too.

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